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Philly: Metro & Suburbs 101
…a little Philly edg-a-ma-ca-tion (education)… from TwizzTed Tiffi – born and raised in the Heart of Montgomery County (Norristown, of course)
You know you’re from Philly (metro & suburbs) when…
You’ve never referred to Philadelphia as anything but “Philly.” And New Jersey is “Jersey.” Well, OC, duh!
You know how to pronounce Bryn Mawr, Schuylkill, Bala Cynwyd, Punxsutawney, Susquehanna, and Allegheny. I know! I know! quiz me…
You know what a “Mummer” is and at what holiday they are most likely to be seen on. Well, I was even corrected on this one… & I watch them every year on New Years Day!
You can use the phrase “fire hall wedding reception” and not even bat an eye. My friend Beth had one of those, fuckin right!!! You could consider my reception a “church basement wedding reception,” lol.
You absolutely hate T.O. and rightfully so!
You really miss Y-100. I know I do…
You know what day Rita’s opens and why you’ll wait in line. They open on the 1st day of Spring and give out free water ice ![]()
At least 5 people on your block have electric “candles” in all or most of their windows all year long. HAHAHA Yup!
Words like “hoagie”, “sticky buns”, “shoo-fly pie”, “pierogies” and “cheesesteak” actually mean something to you. Yes, they are all yummy
You know the time and location of every “wing night” in a 20 mile radius. I can name a few.
You consider a vacation to be a trip to Ocean City, Virginia Beach, Myrtle Beach, or Rehoboth. Not the most exotic vacations but they were getaways.
You’ve seen & get annoyed by an Amish buggy on the road. Why do they have to be so slow?
You’ve run up the steps to the art museum emulating Rocky at least once. I’d have to say, lol, more than once. hee hee.
You know that Intercourse, Climax, Virginville, Paradise, Fishtown, Mars, and Slippery Rock, Blue Ball, & Bird in Hand are all towns in PA. That’s true!
You love Birch Beer! I LOVE birch beer! We Always had it at our “firehouse family reunions.” rofl
You can’t imagine lunch without a Tastykake. “Nobody bakes a cake as tasty as a Tastykake…” (lol… I remember the jingle)
You like olive oil, not mayonnaise on your hoagie. MMMMMMMMMMM YUM YUM!!
You consider Pittsburgh to be “out west,” and you know the fastest way to Philly is the Schuylkill Expressway. Of course.
When the forecast said snow, you stayed up waiting for KYW Newsradio to announce that school was cancelled. OMG, I did that so many times! lol. Our school code was 304.
You will buy a pretzel from anyone, anywhere without even thinking of where it was – or where his hands have been. I really try not to but sometimes they’re free…
You can’t imagine a breakfast without scrapple. MMMMmmmm scrapple.
You know that more than two inches of snow will at least get you a two hour delay. We looked forward to that. Still do as a Mom! Lol.
You think the roads in Every other U.S. state are smooth. They are!
Refer to something as “a whole nother,” Lemme break-it-down now - ”That’s a whole nother issue.” meaning “The issue you are now speaking about is another issue and not in relation to the topic at hand.”
You punctuate every sentence with, “Y’know” at least twice. Well y’know, I figured it’d be better that way, y’know?
You find yourself using “y’all,” “yo,” and “youse guys” when talking to friends & family members. They comment & school me on it every time too!
You know exactly what “Boathouse Row” is and where to find it. On the way to Philly from where I’m from (Norristown).
You find yourself at a nice restaurant thinking “I wonder if they have cheese steaks?” I know people who would think that.
You visit New York and are impressed by how clean it is. I agree.
You call sprinkles on top of your ice cream cone “jimmies”. Guilty as charged.
You know where to find the Rocky statue. Hallo, The Philly Museum of Art.
You’ve had more than one argument over why your place for cheesesteaks is the best. You see I love food so damn… Tony Luke’s, Jim’s, Geno’s, Delessandro’s, I can’t decide!
You don’t know what a sub is, but you think they are trying to describe an imitation HOAGIE. I could not believe it when I found out that EVERYBODY else calls them subs… funny.
You aren’t a bandwagon Sixers fan, you loved them when they sucked, and before they had A.I. Amen.
You remember going to The Gallery or South Street in the summer time just to chill. There were a few times… for me it was more like The King of Prussia Plaza.
You call the Dallas Cowboys the Cowgirls.
Fuckin right! Go E-A-G-L-E-S EAGLES!!!!!
If you never took a field trip to anywhere other than the franklin institute, the zoo, the art museum, or the museum of natural science. Did I even go there???
If you know what it means if someone refers to something as a “jawn” - Basically it means a “thing.” Used in a sentence, “Can you hand me that jawn over there?”
If you know what a P1 is and listen to Chio in the morning. A P1 listener of Wired 96.5’s Chio in the morning is someone who has their car radio set with 96.5 in place #1, you must listen at least 1hour & 15 min/day, Exclusively listen to Chio’s morning show ONLY, & Spread the word to all your family & friends to listen to Chio in the Morning.
If you know every word to the theme song from the fresh prince of Bel Air.
Damn! Got me again! I KNOW THEM ALL
Original Source: Facebook Group; Other links to references throughout blog
New Release; Mariah Carey’s “Obsessed”
Mariah Carey has released a brand new single for the summer of 2009, “Obsessed.” It was written and produced by Mariah, The-Dream and Tricky Stewart and is the first single from her forthcoming Memoirs Of An Imperfect Angel, which is due in stores on August 25 and is Mariah’s 12th studio album and the much anticipated follow-up to her platinum-selling E=MC² and her worldwide 10 million selling The Emancipation Of Mimi. It’s hard to find an artist with Carey’s track record who seems to deliver consistently over their entire career. Some things just seem to get better with time and I for one have always been as much a fan of MC’s lower vocal register as her signature high end power. There’s no doubt that Mariah can sing like no one else, but sometimes less is best, as is the case on this hypnotic track that is sure to keep MC fans totally “Obsessed!” And is it just me or is there a slim chance that MC is sending a message to a certain someone? BET ON IT!
This Weeks Press Release
Mariah Carey Puts Finishing Touches on Her New Album, MEMOIRS OF AN IMPERFECT ANGEL, for August 25th Release”OBSESSED,” FIRST NEW SINGLE PICK – GOES TO RADIO ON JUNE 16th – WRITTEN & PRODUCED BY MARIAH, THE-DREAM AND TRICKY STEWART
| “The 1st single from my new album MEMOIRS OF AN IMPERFECT ANGEL is called ‘Obsessed’ and will be at radio next Tuesday. I’m a lil’ exc … Seriously, this is one of my favorite songs ever. I love the whole album. I’m completely immersed in it. I can’t wait for you to hear it. LY” – Mariah Carey, on Twitter |
First came the emancipation, then came energy and power, and now comes MEMOIRS OF AN IMPERFECT ANGEL, the new album by international superstar Mariah Carey, scheduled to arrive on August 25th. The first new single pick from MEMOIRS is “Obsessed,” which blasts out to radio today, Tuesday, June 16th. The video for “Obsessed” will be directed by Brett Ratner. “Obsessed” was written and produced by Mariah, The-Dream and Tricky Stewart, who are responsible for the majority of tracks on the new album. MEMOIRS was executive-produced by Antonio “L.A.” Reid.
MEMOIRS OF AN IMPERFECT ANGEL, the 12th studio album of Mariah’s career, is the eagerly anticipated follow-up to her RIAA platinum-selling album E=MC² (released April 15, 2008), and her worldwide 10 million selling The Emancipation Of Mimi (released April 12, 2005). Both were Soundscan #1 debut albums that made chart history for Mariah in the U.S. and numerous territories around the globe.
Mariah Carey’s New “Obsessed” Albulm Cover The Emancipation Of Mimi generated three Grammy awards (including Best Contemporary R&B Album), two #1 singles, and countless more honors during its 18-month chart stay. The album debuted at #1 on first week sales of 404,000 copies, Mariah’s highest first week sales total (until E=MC²). Soundscan’s biggest-selling album of 2005, Mimi featured “We Belong Together” (Grammy winner for Best Female R&B Vocal and Best R&B Song) and “Don’t Forget About Us,” Mariah’s 16th and 17th #1 career singles respectively. They tied one of the most enduring chart records in Billboard Hot 100 history, Elvis Presley’s 17 #1’s.Three years later, E=MC² debuted at #1 on first week sales of 463,000 copies, which now stands as the highest first week sales total of Mariah’s career. The album’s success brought total sales of Mariah’s albums, singles and videos to more than 160 million worldwide, distancing her even further from the pack as the top-selling female recording artist in history.E=MC² spun off four singles: “Touch My Body,” “Bye Bye,” “I’ll Be Lovin’ U Long Time,” and “I Stay In Love.” Of these, “Touch My Body” made history when it became Mariah’s 18th #1 Hot 100 hit, thus surpassing Elvis Presley. “Touch My Body”’s two weeks at the top also marked Mariah’s 78th and 79th cumulative career weeks at #1, which tied Elvis’ long-standing all-time high of 79 weeks at #1, as calculated in Billboard.com. At the same time, Mariah is now positioned as the only active recording artist in the 50 years of the Hot 100 (which began in 1958) with the potential to surpass the Beatles’ all-time high of 20 #1 hits.
Source: Mariah Daily
Uranus in Pisces
The Long-Term Consequences of Child Abuse and Neglect
Long-Term Consequences of Child Abuse and Neglect
An estimated 905,000 children were victims of child abuse or neglect in 2006 (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2008). While physical injuries may or may not be immediately visible, abuse and neglect can have consequences for children, families, and society that last lifetimes, if not generations.
In reality, however, it is impossible to separate them completely. Physical consequences, such as damage to a child’s growing brain, can have psychological implications such as cognitive delays or emotional difficulties. Psychological problems often manifest as high-risk behaviors. Depression and anxiety, for example, may make a person more likely to smoke, abuse alcohol or illicit drugs, or overeat. High-risk behaviors, in turn, can lead to long-term physical health problems such as sexually transmitted diseases, cancer, and obesity.
This factsheet provides an overview of some of the most common physical, psychological, behavioral, and societal consequences of child abuse and neglect, while acknowledging that much crossover among categories exists:
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Factors Affecting the Consequences of Child Abuse and Neglect
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Physical Health Consequences
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Psychological Consequences
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Behavioral Consequences
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References
The Federal Government has made a considerable investment in research regarding the causes and long-term consequences of child abuse and neglect. These efforts are ongoing; for more information, visit the websites listed below:
LONGSCAN (Longitudinal Studies of Child Abuse and Neglect) is a consortium of longitudinal research studies on the causes and impact of child abuse and neglect, initiated in 1990 with grants from the National Center on Child Abuse and Neglect. The size and diversity of the sample (1,354 children from five distinct geographical areas) enables LONGSCAN to examine the relative impact of various forms of maltreatment, alone and in combination. LONGSCAN studies also evaluate the effectiveness of child protection and child welfare services.
NSCAW (The National Survey of Child and Adolescent Well-Being) is a project of the Administration on Children, Youth and Families to describe the child welfare system and the experiences of children and families who come in contact with the system. Its 2005 report provides a snapshot of the functioning and the potential service needs of children and families soon after a child protective services investigation has taken place. NSCAW will continue to follow the life course of these children to gather data about services received during subsequent periods, measures of child well-being, and longer-term results for the study population. This information will provide a clearer understanding of life outcomes for children and families who come into contact with the child welfare system. Factors Affecting the Consequences of Child Abuse and Neglect Not all abused and neglected children will experience long-term consequences. Outcomes of individual cases vary widely and are affected by a combination of factors, including:
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The child’s age and developmental status when the abuse or neglect occurred
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The type of abuse (physical abuse, neglect, sexual abuse, etc.)
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The frequency, duration, and severity of abuse
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The relationship between the victim and his or her abuser (English et al., 2005; Chalk, Gibbons, & Scarupa, 2002)
Researchers also have begun to explore why, given similar conditions, some children experience long-term consequences of abuse and neglect while others emerge relatively unscathed. The ability to cope, and even thrive, following a negative experience is sometimes referred to as “resilience.” A number of protective and promotive factors may contribute to an abused or neglected child’s resilience. These include individual characteristics, such as optimism, self-esteem, intelligence, creativity, humor, and independence, as well as the acceptance of peers and positive individual influences such as teachers, mentors, and role models. Other factors can include the child’s social environment and the family’s access to social supports. Community well-being, including neighborhood stability and access to safe schools and adequate health care, are other protective and promotive factors (Fraser & Terzian, 2005).
Physical Health Consequences
The immediate physical effects of abuse or neglect can be relatively minor (bruises or cuts) or severe (broken bones, hemorrhage, or even death). In some cases the physical effects are temporary; however, the pain and suffering they cause a child should not be discounted. Meanwhile, the long-term impact of child abuse and neglect on physical health is just beginning to be explored. According to the National Survey of Child and Adolescent Well-Being (NSCAW), more than one-quarter of children who had been in foster care for longer than 12 months had some lasting or recurring health problem (Administration for Children and Families, Office of Planning, Research, and Evaluation [ACF/OPRE], 2004a). Below are some outcomes researchers have identified:
Shaken baby syndrome. Shaking a baby is a common form of child abuse. The injuries caused by shaking a baby may not be immediately noticeable and may include bleeding in the eye or brain, damage to the spinal cord and neck, and rib or bone fractures (National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke, 2007).
Impaired brain development. Child abuse and neglect have been shown, in some cases, to cause important regions of the brain to fail to form or grow properly, resulting in impaired development (De Bellis & Thomas, 2003). These alterations in brain maturation have long-term consequences for cognitive, language, and academic abilities (Watts-English, Fortson, Gibler, Hooper, & De Bellis, 2006). NSCAW found more than three-quarters of foster children between 1 and 2 years of age to be at medium to high risk for problems with brain development, as opposed to less than half of children in a control sample (ACF/OPRE, 2004a).
Poor physical health. Several studies have shown a relationship between various forms of household dysfunction (including childhood abuse) and poor health (Flaherty et al., 2006; Felitti, 2002). Adults who experienced abuse or neglect during childhood are more likely to suffer from physical ailments such as allergies, arthritis, asthma, bronchitis, high blood pressure, and ulcers (Springer, Sheridan, Kuo, & Carnes, 2007).
Psychological Consequences
The immediate emotional effects of abuse and neglect—isolation, fear, and an inability to trust—can translate into lifelong consequences, including low self-esteem, depression, and relationship difficulties. Researchers have identified links between child abuse and neglect and the following:
Difficulties during infancy. Depression and withdrawal symptoms were common among children as young as 3 who experienced emotional, physical, or environmental neglect. (Dubowitz, Papas, Black, & Starr, 2002).
Poor mental and emotional health. In one long-term study, as many as 80 percent of young adults who had been abused met the diagnostic criteria for at least one psychiatric disorder at age 21. These young adults exhibited many problems, including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, and suicide attempts (Silverman, Reinherz, & Giaconia, 1996). Other psychological and emotional conditions associated with abuse and neglect include panic disorder, dissociative disorders, attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder, depression, anger, posttraumatic stress disorder, and reactive attachment disorder (Teicher, 2000; De Bellis & Thomas, 2003; Springer, Sheridan, Kuo, & Carnes, 2007).
Cognitive difficulties. NSCAW found that children placed in out-of-home care due to abuse or neglect tended to score lower than the general population on measures of cognitive capacity, language development, and academic achievement (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 2003). A 1999 LONGSCAN study also found a relationship between substantiated child maltreatment and poor academic performance and classroom functioning for school-age children (Zolotor, Kotch, Dufort, Winsor, & Catellier, 1999).
Social difficulties. Children who experience rejection or neglect are more likely to develop antisocial traits as they grow up. Parental neglect is also associated with borderline personality disorders and violent behavior (Schore, 2003).
Behavioral Consequences Not all victims of child abuse and neglect will experience behavioral consequences. However, behavioral problems appear to be more likely among this group, even at a young age. An NSCAW survey of children ages 3 to 5 in foster care found these children displayed clinical or borderline levels of behavioral problems at a rate of more than twice that of the general population (ACF, 2004b). Later in life, child abuse and neglect appear to make the following more likely:
Difficulties during adolescence. Studies have found abused and neglected children to be at least 25 percent more likely to experience problems such as delinquency, teen pregnancy, low academic achievement, drug use, and mental health problems (Kelley, Thornberry, & Smith, 1997). Other studies suggest that abused or neglected children are more likely to engage in sexual risk-taking as they reach adolescence, thereby increasing their chances of contracting a sexually transmitted disease (Johnson, Rew, & Sternglanz, 2006).
Juvenile delinquency and adult criminality. According to a National Institute of Justice study, abused and neglected children were 11 times more likely to be arrested for criminal behavior as a juvenile, 2.7 times more likely to be arrested for violent and criminal behavior as an adult, and 3.1 times more likely to be arrested for one of many forms of violent crime (juvenile or adult) (English, Widom, & Brandford, 2004).
Alcohol and other drug abuse. Research consistently reflects an increased likelihood that abused and neglected children will smoke cigarettes, abuse alcohol, or take illicit drugs during their lifetime (Dube et al., 2001). According to a report from the National Institute on Drug Abuse, as many as two-thirds of people in drug treatment programs reported being abused as children (Swan, 1998).
Abusive behavior. Abusive parents often have experienced abuse during their own childhoods. It is estimated approximately one-third of abused and neglected children will eventually victimize their own children (Prevent Child Abuse New York, 2003).
Societal Consequences
While child abuse and neglect almost always occur within the family, the impact does not end there. Society as a whole pays a price for child abuse and neglect, in terms of both direct and indirect costs.
Direct costs. Direct costs include those associated with maintaining a child welfare system to investigate and respond to allegations of child abuse and neglect, as well as expenditures by the judicial, law enforcement, health, and mental health systems. A 2001 report by Prevent Child Abuse America estimates these costs at $24 billion per year.
Indirect costs. Indirect costs represent the long-term economic consequences of child abuse and neglect. These include costs associated with juvenile and adult criminal activity, mental illness, substance abuse, and domestic violence. They can also include loss of productivity due to unemployment and underemployment, the cost of special education services, and increased use of the health care system. Prevent Child Abuse America estimated these costs at more than $69 billion per year (2001).
Summary
Much research has been done about the possible consequences of child abuse and neglect. The effects vary depending on the circumstances of the abuse or neglect, personal characteristics of the child, and the child’s environment. Consequences may be mild or severe; disappear after a short period or last a lifetime; and affect the child physically, psychologically, behaviorally, or in some combination of all three ways. Ultimately, due to related costs to public entities such as the health care, human services, and educational systems, abuse and neglect impact not just the child and family, but society as a whole.
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Resources Provided by the Child Welfare Information Gateway or www.childwelfare.gov
Child Abuse and Neglect http://www.childwelfare.gov/can/
Defining Child Abuse and Neglect http://www.childwelfare.gov/can/defining/
Preventing Child Abuse and Neglect http://www.childwelfare.gov/preventing/
Reporting Child Abuse and Neglect http://www.childwelfare.gov/responding/reporting.cfm
Resource Guide for Women’s Mental Health
The impact of child abuse and neglect is often discussed in terms of physical, psychological, behavioral, and societal consequences.
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About Tiffi
~ I once was lost and now I’m found ~ Most of my life I didn’t even really know who I was. I am very thankful to finally be on the path to finding my purpose. Also, I am grateful to have found a wonderful man, Thomas, who wants to share his life with me just as much as I do with him. 
Together, we are starting a new non-profit organization to help people who have found themselves victims of a falsley filed pfa order. Right now there is not enough support for those individuals who were accused of committing an act of domestic violence and all of their rights have been taken away. People need to understand that filing a PFA (Protection From Abuse) is not a joke. The PFA Act was put in place to help victims of domestic violence and not for those who intentionally abuse the law out of greed or self-interrest. We need to stop those individuals who are abusing these laws that were put in place only to protect the innocent.
I have 4 beautiful daughters that I Love Very Much. I wish I could see them every day of my life.
I really want you girls to know how much I love you & NEVER chose to be away from you.
Bryanna, Kayla, Sierra, & Savannah
I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH AND MISS YOU ALL DEARLY!
I will see you soon!!!
40 Musical Classics Every Theatre Guru Knows
These are actually just a healthy taste of my favorite melodies from some of my favorite “Musicals.”
As some of my friends will know, I spent many years involved in theater productions when I was younger. I guess I will begin about 20 years back.
The Consortium For The Arts Program in the summer, I really did love being On that Stage.
This was a program for students in grades 6-12, in one of the three school districts below,
participate in an end-of-summer performance that they’ve worked on all summer to complete.
The first production I performed in with The Consortium For The Arts profram was The Wizard of Oz, in the summer of 1989.
- My Mommom said that this was the first movie that she ever saw in color. The Wizard of Oz premiered in 1939 so my Mommom was around 11 yrs old.
These annual productions were held, most years, at Norristown Area High School,
Sometimes Plymouth Whitemarsh High School, or Upper Merion Area High School, in Pennsylvania, USA.
Now I believe they only do their performances at Upper Merion Area High School.
I think it is great that my 13-years younger sister Kelly (now 17yrs old) was also given the opportunity to enjoy what this theater program has to offer.
Being only 10 years old when I began; I had my “big role” as the little witch. This was because I was so short and I just “matched”
the “little person” that Popped Out Suddenly as Dorothy & the rest of the gang threw water on the Wicked Witch.
She Sounded, “Melting, melting, melting… As her now lightly sounding ploys for help in excaping were close to null. That is when…
My “HUGE” Starring role, I appeared from behind the Big Black Cauldron, dressed completely in Black (perfect matching my naturally brownish-black toned fluffy hair).
“The Witch” was not totally melted yet, in our production. Then the Cowardly Lion, Tin Man, & Scarecrow (the people who played those characters, of course; See Links, caught me, snagged me up eagerly, and quickly placed me back in the Witch’s (my …ha ha ha) cauldron.
Next, it was my young responsibility to preview a dark-haired Barbie Doll, “proving” to our audinece of family & friends, that the Wicked Witch Indeed Was Dead!
Traaa lala lala-la lala-la lala-la…
…Tra lala lala-la laaa laaaaa
I really did have a GREAT time during the 8 years I participated in The Consortium for the Arts and I am really Glad to know
That a few of my acting buddies from years ago, are now The Only Reason That The Show Still Goes On…
And they now have their own theater organization called Theatre Horizon.
To see how you can get involved with Theater Horizon Click Here
I am sure that my Mother still bears a copy of the picture that was taken of
The Wicked Witch, The Barbie, and I together. However, here is a pic from the performance Anything Goes,
Suggestions on songs that you think I should add to my YouTube Playlist (b/c it fiits),
Feel Free to post a comment with your suggestion!!
If I know the tune, I will gladly Add it!!!










